Significance

People have claimed many different things as the most important things in life. The truth is most people are never really able to figure out what it is they are missing. People can live without being in love, people can live through hard times and the many other things that life throws at them. What people have the hardest time dealing with is when they don't feel significant. It can be not getting picked to play on the team with all the good players. It could be not getting to play at all in the biggest game of the year; or you feeling like everyone you know can survive just the same if you were no longer around. It does not matter what it is, but if something happens that makes you feel insignificant the recovery process is often slow and extremely difficult. In a relationship you have to have someone that makes you feel like you matter to them, that you are significant, whether it be with a friend or a significant other. Once you have an encounter with feeling insignificant you will never be able to look at life quite the same. Help each other, go out everyday with the goal of making as many people as you can feel significant. Afterall, the best thing in life is feeling significant and you never know who you can help that might really need it that day.